All In A Twitter – Friday Frustrations Meme
Welcome to Friday Frustrations, a weekly blog carnival dedicated to getting things off our chests.
There’s something about Memes – either you love them or you can’t stand them.
Frankly, I’ve gotten to like them, because they’re a way for me to lighten up and share some of the fun, enjoyable aspects of my life with my readers, as well as show a lighter side of me.
However, memes are also a way for me to let out some of my … frustrations and rantings. I used to have a “Rant” tab on my old theme that was at Moomettesgram’s Musings, but I took that down. Don’t forget about my “Rant” disclaimer in my “About Me” page where I warn readers ahead of time that you never know what to expect here. That being said, I’m a Mom Bloggers Club Ambassador, and I’ve found a new meme that was listed in the “List Your Meme” group there, so you’ll probably see on here quite often from now on.
It’s called “Friday Frustrations” which you can also find at Conversations With Moms.
Today I’m ranting about my frustrations on Twitter. The timing is appropriate, since, if you look at my Twitter Profile, you’ll see that today marks the 1-year Twitterversary of when I joined.
I’m, well, can you say, “addicted” to Twitter. I could tweet all day long if I could. I really enjoy it because I use it as not only a social networking site, but also as a reference site. It’s like one big college classroom where I can find out info about blogging resources, entertainment, all things pertaining to “Mommy Bloggers”, fashion, breaking news – you name it!
So WTF is my beef?
Twitter is touted as a “social networking site.” Well, yes and no. I’ve found there’s a definite difference between my daytime tweeps and evening tweeps.
Lately, most of the tweeps who tweet during the day seem to be less into conversation, and more into self-promotion. I try to start general conversations, and my tweets go unanswered. I get paranoid. I think I’m being ignored.
So then I try to crash politely interject myself into a conversation that seems friendly, hoping someone will answer me back pay attention to me. Silence.
OK, so then I decide to join the fray and send out a few of my own self-promos. Either you do or you don’t self promo. The rule of thumb that I’ve read from such community and social media gurus like Chris Brogan and sites such as TwiTip, (by Darren at ProBlogger) is for every 8 general, sociable, chat-them-up and work-the-crowd tweets, you can then send out one self-serving tweet.
Sure, I can play this game.
I have almost 3500 people following me, and why can’t I even get one answer or “back-at-ya”? I don’t get it some days.
Sometimes I’ll rant and sign off in a huff. :razzmad:
Evening tweeple are more into conversation, and not really doing the promo bit. At night is when you find the Twitter parties, charitable events and site-warming parties going on. Those are a lot of fun meeting new tweeps and following the #hashtags.
But again, Twitter can be full of cliques, just like in middle school and high school (OK, college, workplace – What-Eva)
Sometimes you think it’s hard to fit in, and sometime you just want to give up on the whole thing.
But, not being one to throw in the towel, I’ll just keep crashing joining conversations and pushing listing my new posts and affiliate links blogging resources, just like everybody else.
It’s all part of the game. It’s fun, yet frustrating at times too.
Anybody else experience my frustrations? Let me know!
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You are so right about the different Twitter populations! The evening crowd is usually more relaxed. There’s a definite camaraderie on Twitter in the late evening. That said I’ve also noticed a certain morning group. In the afternoon it’s hard to get a conversation going.
Don’t take any of it personally. The nature of Twitter is that people pop in and out and don’t always have time for a conversation. Sometimes they might see your tweet too late to answer or something.
I promise to chat if I’m around!
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I tend to be more of a very early morning person (East Coast + early riser). I like that crowd a lot, most of us are caffeine fiends. I don’t get to see much of the evening crowd, but I do enjoy when I can keep my eyes open long enough to say hi.
I know I’m guilty of not always sticking around for a conversation and for that I’m sorry. Thank you for having the guts to call us out on it.
.-= Heather Solos´s last blog ..Fearless Friday: Spring Rolls =-.
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I think that the nature of Twitter has changed. The more people you follow, or follow you, the harder it is to respond to people. I remember last summer I was thrilled when I hit the 300 follower mark. Now 300 followers is small change for many.
I’ve always found the night time crowd to be more chatty. Perhaps another element is that more people are using it “at work” (i.e. when under the eye of their employer) and feel they have to use it differently then.
I used to have a policy that I’d follow everyone back who @ me. But now I cant’ even manage to do that. So as state above, don’t take it personally. Just keep tweeting… you never know what people will be interested in. Try tweeting about Nutella at lunchtime. Last time I did I had 5 moms tweet me back! Cheers!
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I totally understand where you are coming from. Being new to the blogging world and social media, I haven’t quite learned all the ropes yet.
Just keep doing what you’re doing! If someone doesn’t like it, too bad.
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I’m not sure about the day vs. evening tweeps but I have found myself solo tweeting too. It’s frustrating, especially when all around you are people tweeting about making money with their affiliate sites.
.-= ConnieFoggles´s last blog ..SeaWorld Orlando Savings =-.
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Hi Jessica ~ I really think it takes one year to get to know Twitter! Back when not so many people were on it for biz reasons it was much easier to chat! Thanks for leaving your Twitter name too!
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Hi Heather – I try to pop in to Twitter early in the am before I leave for work, and sometimes I get so wrapped up in it I end up being late! You’re right, morning coffee time is a good time to chat!
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Hi Peggy – you’re correct that the nature of Twitter has changed. I really don’t understand how people want thousands of followers. The tweet stream moves so quickly!
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Hey Connie ~ you know you’ll never tweet solo when we’re on at the same time ~ you’re my Retweet buddy!
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I started using Twitter to promote. Now I use it more to chat. I agree it’s hard finding people to chat with. The evening crowd is great. If you want you can chat with me anytime! @alittlebitnutty
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Hi AJ! Thanks for your comments and letting me know I don’t feel alone about Twitter! Will definately ‘back-at-ya’ when I see we’re on at the same time!
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I know what you mean. One of my biggest pet peeves is when people don’t respond when you say something to them. Would people do that in real life? So rude! But, I’ve responded to you and will continue to do so if I’m on at the same time and actually paying attention.
.-= Erin Hill´s last blog ..Moms Can Change The World Link Love =-.
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